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Simple, Relatable Relationship Tips & Advice At Your Fingertips.

Loving Couple

Helping You To
Become The Best Partner Since 2003



I’m so glad you’ve found this page. I am TM Mainka

founder and Editor of

I am passionate about relationships. I am passionate about you becoming the best Partner you can be! spotlights my lived-through life lessons right from Singlehood to Marriage; starting  from "The wait of Singlehood" to being in a relationship and then on to a compatible and enjoyable Marriage. I am an avid Writer,  Motivational Speaker, Wife & Mother to 4 beautiful daughters.

Life lessons should be shared, not stored neatly away. I hope the many pearls of wisdom found on this site sparks your excitement to be the best Partner  you can be. Enjoy my site and all of the unique content I create. We all need something to motivate us. Take a look around; perhaps you’ll discover what exhilarates you.


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You Want To Attract."     

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