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Love is not always a straightforward path, and relationships are often complicated. To help navigate our inner thoughts, prayer and support is a good starting point. Let us help you to articulate your unspoken thoughts...... Prayer After Heartbreak: My heart feels like it has been broken into a thousand pieces. Jesus, I need You to bind my broken heart. Please keep me away from bitterness and resentment. Help me to learn the lessons from this journey. Your strength is made perfect in my weakness. Please let Your joy fill me. Fill me with Your strength. I know that with You, O Lord, I will be Ok and my story will still end in praise. Cover me with Your love. Let me experience Your healing love. Prayer After Compromise: My conscience leaves me no respect. I am continuously feeling guilty of my actions. Jesus, you are not my accuser, You are my great intercessor. Please forgive me for wilful compromise. I am sorry. Please give me your grace to overcome temptations and act wisely with my choices. Prayer When You Desire to Meet Your Partner: I desire to be in a relationship that is compatible, enriching and joyous. Jesus, the work starts with me. I must be the Partner of someone's dreams. I must develop my character, goals and ambitions in such a way that I attract the right Partner for me. Lord, help me to be patient, meek and teachable. I trust You completely, please help me.

The perfect Partner is not born but made through the many choices and disciplines that fashion their character and outlook. To be a suitable, able, fit and equipped partner you need to work at it. Theses series of blogs are my very own passion project filled with unique and engaging content about Singlehood, Dating and Marriage. Explore the blog posts below and all that it has to offer—perhaps it will spark excitement in your desire to date differently and to look at Singlehood as a positive and productive precursor to Marriage. If you are already in a Relationship or Marriage, I hope to inspire you to be the best Partner you can be. Sit back, relax and read on. It will make you a better Partner! www.ess2ence.com like, comment & share.

Are you and your potential partner financially matched? Do your views and value systems about money match? A good example to illustrate this point is the story about Carl and Celine. Carl and Celine appeared from the outside to be the perfect couple; he adored her and she doted over him. They seemed to have everything in perfect equilibrium until it came to how Celine spent her money. Carl placed no value on fashion, holidays or leisure. He felt they were a "frivolous waste" whilst Celine felt it was her prerogative how she spent her hard earned cash on things that "made her happy" and added value to her mental health. For Celine, holidays were not a frivolity; but a means to reset and rewire. New shoes were not a waste of money but something that made her feel beautiful. Carl, didn't agree. He was more pragmatic and frugal. He expected a rainy day and dutifully planned for such a day with diligent frugality. Over time Celine began to despise Carl's frugality and viewed it as stinginess, while Carl became more and more irate and insultive whenever Celine came home with a shopping bag! Needless to say, their attitudes towards finances presented many disagreements and conflicts within their relationship. Ultimately, their financial incompatibility broke their relationship up. How we feel about the acquisition and utilisation of finances matters. Our outlook about finances heavily depends on how we were brought up. A person who was brought up in abundance or whose parents' didn't bring them up with a scarcity mentality, often grows up to be more relaxed when it comes to spending money. Someone who has tasted the unpleasantness of lack or has been exposed to the negative effects of financial lack can grow up being very frugal even if their reality has now changed and they in fact have an abundance of finances. That's why it's so important to explore ones financial compatibility before marriage. Does your world view match? Does your frugality or spending habits match? Does what matter to you, matter to them? On the other end of the spectrum, you may have a partner that is irresponsible with money and has no problem buying an expensive car whilst neglecting to pay their rent! This, again gives a glimpse into that person's value system. If it doesn't match with yours; it will pose a massive problem in marriage. I can't say it enough, compatibility is the true key to marital success, with communication a close second.

Welcome Simple, Relatable Relationship Tips & Advice At Your Fingertips. Read More Helping You To Become The Best Partner Since 2003 ​ ABOUT TM MAINKA I’m so glad you’ve found this page. I am TM Mainka founder and Editor of www.ess2ence.com ​ I am passionate about relationships. I am passionate about you becoming the best Partner you can be! www.ess2ence.com spotlights my lived-through life lessons right from Singlehood to Marriage; starting from "The wait of Singlehood" to being in a relationship and then on to a compatible and enjoyable Marriage. I am an avid Writer, Motivational Speaker, Wife & Mother to 4 beautiful daughters. ​ Life lessons should be shared, not stored neatly away. I hope the many pearls of wisdom found on this site sparks your excitement to be the best Partner you can be. Enjoy my site and all of the unique content I create. We all need something to motivate us. Take a look around; perhaps you’ll discover what exhilarates you. Are you ready to be inspired? "Be The Partner You Want To Attract." TM Mainka TM Mainka 3 hours ago 1 min Prayers Love is... Love is not always a straightforward path, and relationships are often complicated. To help navigate our inner thoughts, prayer and... 2 views 0 comments TM Mainka May 11 1 min Singles Welcome To Relationship insights that actually work The perfect Partner is not born but made through the many choices and disciplines that fashion their character and outlook. To be a... 5 views 0 comments TM Mainka May 4 2 min Marriage Are You Financially Matched? Are you and your potential partner financially matched? Do your views and value systems about money match? A good example to illustrate... 0 views 0 comments 1 2 3 4 5 Upcoming Events look out for our exciting upcoming events. Save the date and share! Sa., 16. Sept. Virtual Event The Waiting Room What should I do while I wait for the right partner for me? You don't!.....You prepare! Practical Tips and relatable guidance. RSVP Sa., 21. Okt. Zoom Single, Unique & Whole Are you Enduring Singlehood or Enjoying it? Are you deliberately Single till the right person interrupts your wholeness? RSVP Let Us Pray Let us help you articulate the unspoken words of your heart. ​ Click below for discerning prayers to support you. Click Here Subscribe Form Join Thanks for subscribing! Contact Us Bavaria Germany *********** info@ess2ence.com First Name Last Name Email Message Thanks for submitting! Send

ABOUT Ess2ence Before a Partnership can work, the coupling between two people must have two important components: Compatibility & Synergy www.ess2ence.com hopes to inspire you to desire the right characteristics in people that will align you with the Partner that you will effortlessly complement in harmonious synergy. We hope to equip and empower you to be the best Partner you can be. ​ Essence is an Acronym for: ​ E quipping S ingle S aints to E steem & N urture C hrist's E xample ​ Whether you are a believer in Jesus Christ or just looking for sound wisdom that will make you a better Partner - www.ess2ence.com will help equip and inspire you to be the best Partner you can be. I hope you enjoy this site and all of the unique content it offers. Take a look around; perhaps you’ll discover what inspires you to do better in Relationships & Love. Are you ready to be inspired?

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